How to show him I care
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How to show him I care
| Sun, 09-25-2005 - 2:03pm |
Me and my boyfriend has been together for 5 months. He is very sweet to me. He cook for me, take me out, and just treat me with respect and like I should be treated. I have never had a serious relationship like this before. I am 22 and he is 27. But we get along perfect although we have our ups and downs but we figure each other out and become tight again. But what I would like to know is what can I do to show him that I appreciate him and all that he do, and that he is the one I want to be with? I be thinking that he don't really think I care when I do. I just have a hard time showing it because this is my first relationship where I have been treated like royalty. What should I do?

Typically, we show the people we love we care by doing the things for them that would make us feel cared for. So one of the best ways you cna sho a person you love and care for them is by, mirroring the things they do for you that make you feel love and cared for.
This is a greta place to start and as you teo get to know each other better you'll pick up other things he would like. For example, my fiance loves cars and he works on his on drag car a lot. So for Christmas and birthdays I always get him stuff for his car. He really appreciates it becasue in the past his girlfriends and his Mom used to always get him things THEY liked instead of what he really wanted, so it really hsowed him I cared when I didn't mind the time he speant on the car and would actually by him gifts that would mean he'd be spending more time on the car and I'd even go watch him work on it and kepe him company.
He loves thos e Milano cookies so I always try to keep them in the house or I'll bake him chocolate chips.
The things that show you care don't have to cost money it's just a matter of making the effort to learn what the person you care about likes or prefers and being a little accomodating to that. It let's them know you're thinking of them and notice them.
If he mentions something he likes or something he likes that you do just make note of it and then find a way to act on it. Just remember it shouldn't feel like you're bending over backwards or that you're having to compromise it should feel pretty natural and it should feel really godd knowing you're doing something that makes him feel good. If it makes you feel bad you should try something different. Doing things for the peson you love should always come from a place of joy never out of obligation.