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How you do know?
| Wed, 05-11-2005 - 11:35pm |
I have not dated in a long while so this this why i am asking.I have meet someone who is younger than me and very cute.He works in my building where i live.Today we took a smoke break that lasted over two hours.
All we did was talk and i swear he is interested butnot sure.He was flirting that much i know.So do i ask him out or wait for him to make a move?
God i feel like i am fifteen again.
All we did was talk and i swear he is interested butnot sure.He was flirting that much i know.So do i ask him out or wait for him to make a move?
God i feel like i am fifteen again.

But if he still doesn' t take the hint, then you'll have to be direct (if you really want to date him) and say something like, "you know, i'd love it if you asked me out"...on the other hand, if you know u guys will spend more time together at work in the future, then u might want to wait it out and see if he eventually asks you out or asks for your #...
If not, I'd make my move...I've missed out on potential relationships by being too scared to make the first move...Some ppl will tell you u must wait for the male to initiate but it's all good and nice to believe that, but it's more a principle ppl hold that's traditional and chivalrous, in my opinion. But it's not wrong or even counter to tradtion if a girl casually asks a guy to hang out...if she initiates kissing/making out or is constantly calling him or asking him out, then yeah, i'd say hold back...Personally, I love it when the guy is the one who calls, at least at first...
Well, good luck!
BUT just to warn you, some guys are flirtatious w/o being interested...there are flirts out there who just do that for fun w/o wanting anything serious...If that's the case- & you can usually tell pretty soon if someone's a flirt if they flirt w/ girls besides you, frequently, etc.- then I would have fun w/ him, but don't play the flirt card too hard and don't expect anything from him...
Hope u keep us posted!
~LL