I got with his brother!!

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Registered: 11-30-2003
I got with his brother!!
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Thu, 11-24-2005 - 7:22am

theres this guy ive liked for a year now. wen we met we were both attracted to each other and hooked up a few times when we were out.
One night at his 21st i hooked up with his younger brother, i dunno y. and i think after that he didnt think of me in a relationship way. he got over it tho and started teasing me about me liking him.
a couple of weeks ago i hooked up with a friend of his who has a girlfriend. Really dumb i kno!!! i was trying to make him jealous...very stupid idea. anyways he got very pissed off that i would do that and we had a big argument and i ended up telling him i liked him. he basically sed he liked me aswell but after these 2 things i did, it couldnt work and he wasnt interested in the whole love thing.

in the meantime i dont kno wat to do, i have apologised, i have talked to him about it and told him why i did wat i did. ive tried being really nice, ive tried pretending not to care. i kno i dont deserve for him to just say ok lets go out, but im not a bad person and i really like him.
what can i do to show him i really wanna go out with him and that those were just mistakes???? plzzz help

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Thu, 11-24-2005 - 3:55pm

>>what can i do to show him i really wanna go out with him and that those were just mistakes????<<

You can't do anything. We all have our limits and you've obviously gone too far in his eyes. Apologies won't erase mistakes - and people don't have to forgive us if they don't want to. He's got a good sense of self preservation :-)

I would suggest that you write off any possibility with this guy and instead, learn from your behaviour.

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Registered: 09-01-2004
Fri, 11-25-2005 - 2:38pm
Hello- welcome to the board. I would have to say, youve got yourself into a sticky situation. You broke the number one rule, never work your way through the family. It doesnt make you good, and talk gets generated by actions of those who do so. This is not somebody who you should continue dating inorder for you to save face. I would appologize and try to explain, but in the end move on and chalk it up for a loss. If your relationship were to go any further, the family will not respect you. So respect yourself and move forward. Sorry so blunt, its just how it works! Hope I helped, and good luck!