I got with his brother!!
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| Thu, 11-24-2005 - 7:22am |
theres this guy ive liked for a year now. wen we met we were both attracted to each other and hooked up a few times when we were out.
One night at his 21st i hooked up with his younger brother, i dunno y. and i think after that he didnt think of me in a relationship way. he got over it tho and started teasing me about me liking him.
a couple of weeks ago i hooked up with a friend of his who has a girlfriend. Really dumb i kno!!! i was trying to make him jealous...very stupid idea. anyways he got very pissed off that i would do that and we had a big argument and i ended up telling him i liked him. he basically sed he liked me aswell but after these 2 things i did, it couldnt work and he wasnt interested in the whole love thing.
in the meantime i dont kno wat to do, i have apologised, i have talked to him about it and told him why i did wat i did. ive tried being really nice, ive tried pretending not to care. i kno i dont deserve for him to just say ok lets go out, but im not a bad person and i really like him.
what can i do to show him i really wanna go out with him and that those were just mistakes???? plzzz help

>>what can i do to show him i really wanna go out with him and that those were just mistakes????<<
You can't do anything. We all have our limits and you've obviously gone too far in his eyes. Apologies won't erase mistakes - and people don't have to forgive us if they don't want to. He's got a good sense of self preservation :-)
I would suggest that you write off any possibility with this guy and instead, learn from your behaviour.