I have a crush on my Bisexual guy friend

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Registered: 05-06-2006
I have a crush on my Bisexual guy friend
Thu, 04-23-2009 - 6:08pm

It started out in the 6th grade where my friend,which is a guy, liked me. I never liked him because he was like nerdy. He came out and told everybody that he liked boys but wasn't all the way gay...bisexual. We were hanging out a week ago with his friend and boyfriend. His boyfriend was SUPER cute and nice. He wrote my friend this note saying that he was in love with him and everything and my friend said that he felt the same way. I thought it was the cutest thing EVER! they were soooooo cute together. Although I would never get jealous around my friend and his boyfriend, I began to develope a crush for him. It was weird and I thought I was going through some kinda phase so I wanted to hold out from telling him how I felt about him. That same night, my best friend called me and told me that he liked me too since the sixth grade and never stopped.

So we feel the same way but my question is, what should I do? is it okay to date someone who has had deep relations with a guy although he still likes girls, A LOT?

I want to make this work but I need advice first......What would you do?

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Registered: 01-05-2006
Sat, 04-25-2009 - 10:32am

Are you confusing loving him as a friend with being in love with him?

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