I lost the man i was supposed to marry
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| Mon, 10-03-2005 - 10:06pm |
Well, my friend advised me to come to the cosmo site to get advise from other women! I drive her crazy all day at work with my cries and questions!
But this is the situation, My boyfriend (ex now) and i had been dating for 8 months now. He was a great boyfriend to me, something i am not used to. He would call me all day, see me all the time, buy me gifts, he got along great with my family everything was just wonderful. We even spoke about marriage, he told me i was the girl he was looking for his whole life and that he was so happy to had found me! I felt like my life was finally coming together! We told each other everything! We really were bestfriends. Until stupid me went out of control! My good friend (girl) and I went out one night, we got so drunk! And we ended hooking up(had sex)! I felt guilty but at the same time i felt like i could tell my boyfriend that that happend and he would get over it! But i was wrong!!!!!!!! He lost it! He broke up with and accused me of cheating (although it was with a girl)! I explained to him that it didnt mean anything to me at all(which its true) and to please forgive me! He said i had broken the bond we had, and that it didnt matter it was with a girl, and that the fact that it was with a good friend of mine made it worst because we would always be in each others life and he would always have to wonder if we are hooking up when we hang out! I told him it was a night of stupidity and that it would never happen again, that i owuld even drop my friendship with her! He wont forgive me! I am DEVASTED!!! I cant function! He says we could remain friends, so i would text and call him and he would respond but this weekend that stopped! Now he is not talking to me @ all! And i dont know what to do!!!! What should i do? Should i continue calling and insisting to be heard although i apologized and swore to him i would never do something like that again, or should i just let him be for now? I dont want to be with out him, he is my heart, my everything! WE WERE SUPPOSED TO GET MARRIED! what do i do?
Please Help!

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Edited 10/5/2005 2:31 pm ET ET by inkeddogmom
well, well, My guy called me last night, and apologized for not answering my calls or text. I couldnt believe what i was hearing when he called! He says he knows he said we could be friends and that for now for us to take things slow because he loves me and he does want to be with me but he needs to get over my mistake.
I was so relieved and thankful to god for sending him back to me! He is mature enough to accept the facts and work on getting over them without hateful words towards me or treating me like sh*t !
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