I might be wrong??

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-08-2004
I might be wrong??
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Thu, 11-03-2005 - 2:56pm

This guy I know is cute and we flirt a little from time to time . He has a long distance girlfriend that he is in love with and is thinking about marrying . My question is I know he loves his girl , but he claims that they don't have the same goals in life . I feel we would be great together, but he has a girl and I want to respect that , but it's hard not to try and push up on him. He also told me today that I remind him of his ex- girlfriend I don't know what happen with them , but I thinks he finds me cute. Would I be wrong if I flirted just a little harder to let him know I'm interested.

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Registered: 09-15-2005
Thu, 11-03-2005 - 3:43pm

"Would I be wrong if I flirted just a little harder to let him know I'm interested."

In a simple answer, YES!!! You would be completely 100% wrong to push harder. How about you be the better person, the more moral person, and tell the guy to call you up after he's been single for a minimum of 3 months.

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Registered: 09-27-2004
Fri, 11-04-2005 - 4:20pm
Agreed with inkeddogmom! He has a girlfriend period, dont' even go there when someone is attached, no matter what signal he is giving you. Stay away and don't tread in those waters, you would end up hurting yourself, him and the woman he is seeing.