I think it is over

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2004
I think it is over
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Thu, 06-09-2005 - 12:42pm
I've had it. This morning I found his cell phone bill and looked at it. he is always lying about who is calling him. Well, there were plenty of late nite/early morning calls to one number, guess what a girl's. We have gone through this before with his text messaging. Put it wasn't short concos, it was 50 to 80 minutes. He wa already at work, so I left his bill out with a note. He better have a good excuse why he called a nother girl at 1 in the morning and talked to her for more than an hour. We have never had an hour phone convo. He is going to be mad, but I said if he wanted to explain call me otherwise don't bother.
I am sick of it. I love him, but that is very disrespectful to me, don't you think? I do. I wanted to vent, but wanted to know what you would do. I like other people's opinions. Have a good day.
Thank you
M~

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-12-2005
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 7:01pm

You are right. There's an old story about a frog and a scorpion.

Scorpion walks up to the frog and says can you give me a ride on your back across the pond? The frog replies, NO Way! You'd bite me and I'd die. The scorpion says, why would I do that? I can't swim and I need you to get me across the pond. If you die, I will die. THe frog thinks about it and decides to give him a ride.

About half way across the pond, the scorpion bites the frog. The frog screams, Why did you do that??!! The scorpion replies........because I'm a scorpion!

Like a leopard, scorpions don't change either. I have nicknamed him, of course, Scorpion, ha ha. Helps me through the weak spots.

We do get along great as friends, and I need to remember that is how we are better off. No more Illusions!

Thanks for the support!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-12-2005
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 7:03pm

I try my best! Baby steps, but getting stronger as the week goes on. Need to go the whole week without seeing him, to help kick the habit! These types can be so addicting!

I hope you get out there and have a heck of a summer yourself!

Maybe I can help someone else out here as you all have supported me!

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