I want to ask a guy out but too shy

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Registered: 04-19-2006
I want to ask a guy out but too shy
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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 5:53pm
Hi everyone I have a bit of a dilemma.... i really fancy a guy who works in a shop and go in sometimes hes friendly and says hi etc but i dont know if he fancies me. Im desperate 2 go out with him but so shy, what do i do???
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 6:10pm

Rather than asking him out directly, I'd start with a bit of conversation first. Asking him about his weekend would be a good start. If you and he can start to have some regular friendly chat everytime you visit the shop (and you can establish that he's single!) then start to think about the next step.

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Registered: 04-19-2006
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 6:45pm
thanks 4 advice i even find talking to him hard just feel embarassed and painfully shy, he seems nice and gave me a lovely smile and said hi etc, so i know ive just gotta do it !!!!! what shall i talk about?
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Registered: 04-16-2006
Thu, 04-20-2006 - 3:47am
Hey, I think you can talk about anything! If he likes you he will be interested in whatever you have to say. If he really likes you he may ask you out. And if he really really likes you he may just marry you! (a couple of months/years down the road)Anyway life is short so grab it by the horns and have a great time. Good luck.
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Registered: 04-19-2006
Thu, 04-20-2006 - 5:58am
ah cheers 4 support and advice everyone it is hard but would be worth it if he said yes, i know ive gotta do it only live once and all that just cant handle rejection!!!!!