I want to send a text message to my ex..

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Registered: 12-20-2005
I want to send a text message to my ex..
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Wed, 04-05-2006 - 10:14am
I just broke up with my boyfriend last friday (it had been lingering but I made it official friday) and I feel really bad about it because I am breaking his heart. I am 19 and he was my first ever boyfriend. But I believe that I am too young for a relationship as serious as ours was, and I don't know what I want right now. It was the best decision because I kept being wishy washy, I kept breaking up with him and going back, like 5 times, basically I just kept playing games. So right now, I am going to use this time to learn and sort of find myself, meaning figure out what I want, date other people maybe and see what kind of guy I want. Well my ex and I were the best of friends and we talked all the time and now we have pretty much gone cold turkey. I tried to stay friends but he would just beg me for another chance everytime I saw him, so I knew that I could have no contact. But for some reason today I really want to text him to tell him about this new cd that is really good. I know I probably shouldn't because it will show that I am thinking about him, but... I am! I guess I think that it is just a nice little text that doesn't mean too much and just to show him that I am not a bitch and haven't forgotten about him. So..would it be okay? I mean i'm not saying anything about us or anything along those lines..or is even just a nice text like that going to mean something really big to him? I think that he will just be like 'wow she is thinking about me, that's cool'. I don't think he will think it means we are back together or anything, but I guess it could give him false hope. But I don't know right now, sometimes I think he might be the one! but right now I just don't know anything...Please help!!! I was doing so good and even told him not to call me because it was for the best, and now I am wanting to send a text?! What do I do?
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Registered: 08-28-2005
Wed, 04-05-2006 - 10:50am
I wouldn't send a text.
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Registered: 12-20-2005
Wed, 04-05-2006 - 11:08am
lol. good answer, yeah I just talked to one of his friends and said he won't stop talking about me and stuff, so yeah i think it is a good idea that i don't send one. welp sorry it had to be such a long post for such a dumb question, but it helped! so thats the good part right?! haha thanks