is it meant to be??!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-28-2005
is it meant to be??!
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Tue, 12-06-2005 - 6:07am

hello everyone,
iam a 17 year old girl that have always belived that dating is nothing but a silly game that will let u end up hurt and alone...but recintley i fell in love with a guy...iam head over heals for him and i really think he loves me too...and all our friends see the emotions between us..he is my class mate and we have been in love for like 5 months and he did ask me out but i refused at first but now he has been my boyfriend for 2 weeks..now we live in a commiunity were dating is mostly not aloud..my mum figered out about us and she was cool about it but she told me not to talk to him on the phone and started telling me that this is a crush and it will go away but i really cant imagine my life without him and iam still talking to him on the phone..so plz tell me is my mum right..are me and him meant to be??

i want to thank whoever red my msg and those who reaplied.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 12-06-2005 - 8:45am
Only time can tell if your meant to be, but I am more on your moms side. Looking back when I was 17 I had my first love but it was not a relationship meant to be. It was good for me to have the first feeling of truley caring for someone and prepare me for future relationships. Enjoy your time and not worry about meant to be so soon it is only 2 weeks.

Marie

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