Is it worth the fall out?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2009
Is it worth the fall out?
Mon, 10-31-2011 - 7:52pm

I know in many ways I'm kind of looking to be told it is but i would really appreciate some objective feedback.

My friend met and briefly was seeing a guy, non exclusively for a while last April/May.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 10-31-2011 - 8:29pm

Normally I would say check w/ your friend first to see how she feels but it seems like she is an unreasonable person so in this case I'd say don't tell her until you've gone on a few dates w/ him to see how things are going--if you end up going on a few dates and then decide you're not right for each other, then why upset her?

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 11-02-2011 - 2:23pm

In your group is she the queen?


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Tue, 11-15-2011 - 9:55am

I agree with music.