just broke up with the Green Card guy

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Registered: 12-31-1969
just broke up with the Green Card guy
Sun, 07-29-2012 - 9:14pm

We met up last week ..  my sis was also due to have her baby so I was constantly checking my phone during our date to see if she went into labor.  I texted him when she was born and no reply...  that just got me a little upset that he didnt' even say "Congrats." Yes I know he was working but I texted him on his lunch break and he has texted me before on his lunch break.  Then I emailed him and asked if he got my text and he said yes, he was busy working and then it hit me all at once. I realized he feels work is important because he loses $$ if he doesn't work - I'm not a gold digger but I also don't want to be the sole supporter of my husband..  ugh.....  i also didn't trust that he is still friends with his ex and oh yeah the green card thing...  so it's over now....      

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Registered: 03-24-2003
Tue, 07-31-2012 - 8:34am


Very glad to hear this.

I don't have many deal breakers myself but violence, criminal record and illegal status where he lives definitely ARE major ones. For the future..... please don't waste your time on men like this. The point of a r-ship is to make your life better, lighter, brighter, happier and easier - an illegal violent criminal won't be able to do that.

Best of luck...