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| Mon, 05-23-2005 - 1:16pm |
We have heard that many think chatting online or looking at porn for most is like cheating. What a phone sex, do you consider it cheating? why or why not?



Personally, for me it makes it different when there is a live person involved. So online pictures, video, magazines... none of that bothers me, but anything where there is another live person they could become emotionally involved with, NO WAY.
Oddly, that doens't include strippers to me. Maybe it's because I've bene friends with polenty of girls who stripped and I've bene to strip clubs and I know that it is atypical for there to be anything more then looking or a lap dance happening. Maybe it's becasue all the guys I've been serious about don't really like strip clubs.
I can't really explain it. I guess that online sex or phone sex just seem more intimiate to me then a strip club or other porn.. more potentially dangerous.
I basically have the same views as Nick...so long as it doesn't involve an individual, I'm fine with it (well, in moderation at least; if my SO was looking at porn *instead* of having sex with me, then it wouldn't be ok).
I view any interaction of a sexual nature with another person (whether it's on the phone, IM'ing or whatever) to be inconsistent with being in a committed, monogamous relationship. Whether it's technically "cheating" or not doesn't really matter to me...what matters is that both of us have a clear understanding of what is ok and what isn't, and abide by that.
Sheri
"well, in moderation at least; if my SO was looking at porn *instead* of having sex with me, then it wouldn't be ok"
Ditto!!!!!