Lightbulb moment?

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Registered: 02-22-2011
Lightbulb moment?
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Sun, 05-15-2011 - 12:57am

Please read some/all of my previous posts for background info.

So my fiance is treating me wonderfully, day in and day out... and

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Mon, 05-16-2011 - 6:19am

I hope you haven't sent out the wedding invitations yet. You don't sound

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Registered: 05-12-2011
Mon, 05-16-2011 - 9:31am
I feel like there are strong explanations for the apathy. We are each other's first partner and while he never ever pressured me Into sex, I still felt guilty because of how I was raised. So we set this precedent for sex to feel really inhibited rather than excitig right from the start. Now we have been together 8 years. He is just a fantastic partner in so many other ways. I just feel ridiculous for entertaining the idea of a guy who very well could be a one night stand.
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Registered: 12-05-2010
Tue, 05-17-2011 - 2:51am
ls33 wrote:

Please read some/all of my previous posts for background info.

So my fiance is treating me wonderfully, day in and day out... and

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 05-18-2011 - 12:59am

Your feelings are normal and not unusual at all.

chaika

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Registered: 03-17-2007
Sun, 01-01-2012 - 3:18pm

This sounds lke trouble. I think you need to get this out of your system before you get married (although it can happen at any time). Do your fiance a favor.....postpone the marriage and decide what you want. Your quite young....24 I believe. There is plenty of time, but not once you're married.