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| Sun, 09-11-2005 - 8:20pm |
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Our relationship has been really good, but I've been somewhat unhappy lately. For the past few months he has been working constantly, to the point where I'm lucky if I get to see him. He will make an effort to see me sometimes, but there are days where I don't hear from him at all. On those days I don't even know if he is working because he doesn't tell me so I end up waiting all day to hear from him..thinking I'm going to see him...(I end up being proven wrong by that night when I still don't hear from him.) I've tried talking to him about it and he always uses the excuses that he was too busy to call me or that he forgot. It always ends up in an argument because he feels I should understand, but I don't and I'm frustrated from not hearing from him. After the argument things start to change for like 2 weeks, but they always go right back to where it started. I don't know what to do anymore. I love him and I know he loves me, but I'm sick of being put on the back burner. Help :(

It's not going to be easy to stand up for yourself but you need to. A relationship is TWO people fighting hard to keep it together. You can't and shouldn't do it alone.
Good luck!