Men Making Up Their Mind

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2006
Men Making Up Their Mind
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Tue, 06-30-2009 - 3:54pm

I'm not even sure how to ask this but, here goes:


I met this guy and we have become friends.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2009
Tue, 06-30-2009 - 4:11pm
2-3 months wouldn't be unheard of. It depends on the guy, they're not all the same. Some of them want to know if they have real feelings for you before they make a definitive move, and it may take some time getting to know you to get to that point.
If you're really impatient then maybe you should do the dirty work yourself...!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2006
Tue, 06-30-2009 - 4:23pm
I did take the initiative to get us this far.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2009
Tue, 06-30-2009 - 6:26pm
Do you think it might be a problem if you're pretending to be someone you're not? I'm not sure if that's the case but I hope you're not changing yourself too much to win this guy. Just some food for thought.