Mr. Right i hope?? finally !!
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| Thu, 09-08-2005 - 2:49pm |
Hi everyone – I’ve posted here only once before but the advice I received was well worth it and well – I have another dilemma.
After 2 years of dating I’ve actually met a Mr. Right..! Things are progressing and we had “the talk” about moving forward to a mature relationship.
My problem is I’ve been dating “Mr. Right Now’s” for the past while but have one in particular that has been around for 2 years now. He knows he is NOT the only guy I see (I think – although we’ve never asked e/o).
He is the only person I’ve been intimate with over the 2 year period. We see e/o in a very non traditional way. I guess the best way to put it is that it is a “booty call” type of relationship… he calls I go… sometimes late at night.. etc… you get the picture..
He’s been away about 6 weeks now and conveniently Mr. Right came along during that time. He has called 2 times while he was away…
I want to break up with Mr. Right Now… but I don’t want to explain everything to him. Our R wasn’t serious enough that I should tell him.
I would rather just be busy when he called and not call etc.. but my gut feeling is that is not the right thing to do either…
I appreciate your advice..any advice!! He comes back next week…so I will have to do something!!

I think the next time he calls, I would just say something like, "I've enjoyed the time we've spent together over the past couple years but I am no longer at a place in my life where I want to continue our arrangement. I wish you all the best." I agree, he doesn't need details, but he also shouldn't be brushed off.
Sheri