Mr/Miss Right Now

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mr/Miss Right Now
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Thu, 03-09-2006 - 12:01pm
I was talking to a friend the other day who has a college-
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Registered: 03-07-2004
Thu, 03-09-2006 - 12:46pm

"is there anything wrong with dating someone you know isn't right for you in the long-term if you know it's temporary?"

Not if both parties are in the same boat, and the dating/just for kicks "relationship" isn't too serious (i.e. no sex).

"Should she feel guilty for dating Mr. Right Now?"

Only if the guy isn't knowing. Otherwise, she is being dishonorable to him and his emotions/feelings and calously tossing his disposition aside for her own fun. If he thought he was in it for a real relationship, and she was withholding the information that she was only in it for fun right now, then *that* is what she should feel guilt over.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-09-2006 - 1:38pm

I agree with Angelicafox...it's only "wrong" if she's not being upfront with him.

Sheri