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My best friend...
| Sun, 04-16-2006 - 4:41am |
Hello, I don t know what to do!!
I met this guy a while ago when he joined our company and during the last 6 month we have become really good friends. He called me even his soulmate a week ago!
We never made it over the "friendship" barrier. I keept telling him what a great "friend" he is. People think we are dating but we both always tell everyone we are just friends, which makes it harder to get to another level.
OK, here is my problem: I suggested him that he should try it with his ex again (they were dating 6month ago just for a few weeks and he really wants a relationship); I never thought about it actually because I tried to persuade myself that he is just a friend and we should keep it like it is.
A week ago he told me that he and his Ex will meet up! I was in shock and realized how my I really like him! What can I do? I don t want to speak open about it because if he has still feelings for her he should go fo it, I don t want to the 2nd alternative! But what if she is the alternative since he "sent signals" for more than 4month (I just realize it when I think back!). Its a pain that you sometimes realize what U want when its already too late!
Is there anything I can do????
I met this guy a while ago when he joined our company and during the last 6 month we have become really good friends. He called me even his soulmate a week ago!
We never made it over the "friendship" barrier. I keept telling him what a great "friend" he is. People think we are dating but we both always tell everyone we are just friends, which makes it harder to get to another level.
OK, here is my problem: I suggested him that he should try it with his ex again (they were dating 6month ago just for a few weeks and he really wants a relationship); I never thought about it actually because I tried to persuade myself that he is just a friend and we should keep it like it is.
A week ago he told me that he and his Ex will meet up! I was in shock and realized how my I really like him! What can I do? I don t want to speak open about it because if he has still feelings for her he should go fo it, I don t want to the 2nd alternative! But what if she is the alternative since he "sent signals" for more than 4month (I just realize it when I think back!). Its a pain that you sometimes realize what U want when its already too late!
Is there anything I can do????

I would tell him how you feel, it's best to be honest.
He might be confused as to why you said for him to try things with his ex again, but what do you have to lose? He could very well say he feels the same way and then you would have only gained something.
Some people may say to stay back and see what happens with his ex but why wait around for something you know you need/want to do? Don't be scared to tell him how you feel, just make sure when and if you do it you have an idea of what you are going to say otherwise you will be so nervous you won't know where to start!