is my guy bestfriend in love with me too?

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Registered: 07-12-2011
is my guy bestfriend in love with me too?
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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 1:06am


I have known my "male" best friend for about 7 years, we became closer and more best of friends for about a year now when he went off to college in another state, we kept in touch every now & then via skype/facebook/text/calls..months later, he finally came back to our hometown for school vacation for 2 months. i picked him up from the airport and ever since we have seen eachother literally everyday, if not, every other day. ( a part i left out, i have a 2 year old child with a previous relationship) my best friend loves my child so much. he calls himself the father (i told him hes the god father),
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 10:45am

I think the 2 of you need to have a talk about what it going on.

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Registered: 07-12-2011
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 1:17pm

i know, its very complicated and your right. he is giving mixed signals....i think i need to end this "relations" we have. its getting me really angry lately..because he isnt stepping up like i want him to and i would like to have a relationship with him but it will be hard because hes going out of town to school. i will sit and talk to him about..bc i dont want to be friends with benefits. but it is great..because i like being so close to him