My ideal man, but moves too fast

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2005
My ideal man, but moves too fast
11
Wed, 01-30-2013 - 4:32am

Hey folks,

I've never been on this particular board but lingered on a couple others for a while. I started dating a guy I used to work with and we've together a little over 3 months. We have the most amazing connection and I've never experienced that before...ever. The "I love yous" started a month and a half into the relationship and now 2 or 3 marriage proposals in the last week. It's freaking me out! I'm freaking out because I was in an abusive marriage so I'm just flightly to begin with. I'm also freaking out because this is the first real relationship since that abusive marriage. It feels real and it feels good (for the first time), which, is why it scares me.

So, my question is how would any of you think about this situation? Three months in and wants to get married. Is it possible he is one of those guys that just wants to get married so bad, they marry anyone?

Does he just want someone to take care of him? Could he really feel this way about me?

I don't expect anyone to know the answers to these questions. I just want to know if there is that typical kind of guy that rushes into relationships and if so, what do I look out for? Or what are some warning signs of bad things to come? When he says that he loves me, I really believe that he does. And on the other hand, I start to think "If it's too good to be true, it probably is." Any direction or insight would be helpful.

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-04-2013
Wed, 12-04-2013 - 4:51pm

 

Whosurmami,

I've met someone that fits this description to the key. Would you mind giving initials so I can compare notes.

How did it end?

Pages