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| Mon, 02-27-2006 - 1:33pm |
This maybe long and confusing, but I need some advice.
Me and my Ex dated for 5 years and broke up a year and half ago. But he was going through some hard times and ended up staying in my apartment with me until now. Sounds weird, but actully we ended up becoming best friends. I've been dating this new guy for a couple months now, he nows about the ex and has been ok with it until recently and wants he to move out. Which is understandable. Well my ex is moving out on the 6th and i've kinda been having a hard time with it. I'm so comfortable with the living arangment I have with my Ex, I scared about the change. But what i'm, confusing myself with is- Am I having a hard time with this because I'm scared of the change or because I still have feelings for him? Which kinda of goes to my next question. Is it possible to (think you) love someone because it the type of person you should be with? My Ex is the bad boy type with random jobs that my family had a hard time excepting, my friends love him though and My new guy is the goody boy with good job that the family loves. Just wondering if I really like the new guy because thats the type of guy I'm supposed to like. I know these are answers I need to find out for myself, but just would like some guidance.
Me and my Ex dated for 5 years and broke up a year and half ago. But he was going through some hard times and ended up staying in my apartment with me until now. Sounds weird, but actully we ended up becoming best friends. I've been dating this new guy for a couple months now, he nows about the ex and has been ok with it until recently and wants he to move out. Which is understandable. Well my ex is moving out on the 6th and i've kinda been having a hard time with it. I'm so comfortable with the living arangment I have with my Ex, I scared about the change. But what i'm, confusing myself with is- Am I having a hard time with this because I'm scared of the change or because I still have feelings for him? Which kinda of goes to my next question. Is it possible to (think you) love someone because it the type of person you should be with? My Ex is the bad boy type with random jobs that my family had a hard time excepting, my friends love him though and My new guy is the goody boy with good job that the family loves. Just wondering if I really like the new guy because thats the type of guy I'm supposed to like. I know these are answers I need to find out for myself, but just would like some guidance.
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| Mon, 02-27-2006 - 3:57pm |
Hi. I would stay with your current boyfriend but not get too serious for awhile.. I would let your ex move out and see how you feel about it after he leaves for a few months. If you are sad about the change then I imagine you will get over it after a little time living on your own. If you keep on dwelling about your ex moving out after a few months then it sounds like you still have feelings for him. I know its hard because it takes some time before you will know how you feel but I think its the best way to find out. Best of luck.
