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need advice..please
| Sun, 12-18-2005 - 12:43pm |
There is this guy that I have been involved with for a while now. It all started about 6 years ago, but he had a gf at the time. His sister and I are best friends, so I would stay at her house and he was always there also. So one night, I was at his sisters house and she and I had been drinking, so I was a little drunk. So that night I was laying on the couch with him and he kissed me, this was the first time he had ever made a move on me. Well I ended up sleeping in his bed that night ( we didn't have sex) we just cuddled. So this ended up becoming a regular thing between us but he still had a gf. So about 2 years later he and his gf ended up breaking up and I was so happy because I thought he would end up with me, but I was wrong, the same thing continued. We would do stuff but we still had never had sex, which was fine with me. So about a year later he ended up going out with this girl and they was together for almost 3 years, but he and I still continued to fool around, but this girl he was dating, she and I ended up becoming good friends, because his sister,me, and her would always hang out together. So I felt somewhat guilty about what was going on, even though we still hadn't had sex, but we did everything else. It was like any chance he would get to sneak around with me he would and this was in his house, so she would be there because they lived together, and anytime they would fight he would come to me. So when they broke up he told his sister to call me because he wanted me to come over, but I couldn't because I was very sick, but when I did get the chance to go over we finally had sex. So we've been sleeping together since then, which its been 7 months. I know he still has feelings for her but I know he has feelings for me to and when we're together like when I stay at his house with him the things that he does is so sweet. So my question is, are we friends with benefits or more, since this has been going on for so long. I know I should find a way to get over him, but I can't because I like him so much. I just don't know what to do..Any advice I would appreciate greatly.Also I'm sorry that this was so long.

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