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| Fri, 11-18-2005 - 11:03pm |
My bf of almost 6 months told me two weeks ago today that he was breaking up with me because he wasn't sure if he wanted to be in a relationship. I think its total BS! I know you are thinking 6 months isn't a long time, but I have 2 kids ages 8 and 5. My kids love him and so does my family. We bowl together every other sunday and this makes for a difficult time. We went to dinner last sat. (my treat) to talk. He says he cares about me and wants to STAY FRIENDS, but we weren't just friends later that night. We have talked twice this week keeping the conversation simple, but I am dying inside. I miss him like crazy. How do I get my man back. I am trying to give him his space but I just want to scream at him will you get your act together and just tell me this was all a mistake.
Please tell me some advice I want this to work!
Jeannine
Please tell me some advice I want this to work!
Jeannine

Crossing my fingers *and toes too*,
Jeannine
Marie
I agree with you about not being touchy feely with him around the kids. They understand that we are "going out" which to them means that we spend time together and we are boyfriend/girlfriend. I have explained to them that we are kinda like really good friends. He was in a relationship where his girlfriend had two kids that he got very attached to, then when they broke up she no longer let them see him. They called him dad. He had a child with her. So the father figure was taken from all three children. We have both agreed that he will not be a father figure to them at this time. He doesn't discipline them he just gets to be the friendly person to play with and spend time with. I thank you for your input and that you are looking out for my kids emotions. I truely feel that you are a great person for your advice.
Thanks again,
Jeannine