Need help in the romance dept pls

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Need help in the romance dept pls
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Fri, 05-06-2005 - 12:41pm
Hi!!!
Okay so tonight me & my b/f are celebrating our 1 month anniv.(we were together for over a year & then broke up for 8 months)So he bought me this gorgeous white gold tennis bracelt with over a ct of diamonds. I was like whats this 4? He was like 4 our anniversary next week. Now we used to spend so much $ on each other. Like ridiculous!!!!!!I love the bracelet but now what the hell am I supposed to get him? My family is very BIG on holidays,bdays,anniversaries, blah blah. So needless to say that I just spent a couple of hundred on my parents anniversary gift, some money on my aunts bday, more money on my moms bday last weekend + her bday dinner which was like over a hundred each, & now i need to buy 4 mothers day gift so there goes more hundreds. I'm 25 & yes I make money but not like all else in my family. Also I have 2 trips for this month planned so I have 2 put money aside 4 that. Bottomline is that I have NO $ right now & I feel bad not giving him anything. So, I cashed in my rewards points...lol and got a suite at a nice hotel in NY. He has no idea that I rsvp'd for it tonight. BUT I told him from b4 that I was gonna cash in the point 4 a room. (he knows it's free...lol)Anyway, what else can I do to make it special? I was thinking prepping it with candles, rose petals, balloons, bubble bath (I will disinfect first!)& what else? Then he was like to wear something white. I don't want to until I get married. I mean I'm NO VIRGIN but white is like serious no? What do you think???? Thanks : D
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Registered: 04-28-2005
Sat, 05-07-2005 - 9:04am
You wanted to know how to make it more special for him...why are you asking us :)? He gave you the answer you need. WEAR THE WHITE. The significance for your wedding day will truly be when you walk down the aisle. If you don't marry him, wearing white for your current b/f won't matter. If you do marry this one, wear something on your wedding night that will shock!! And please him, no doubt. What color to wear isn't the issue, pleasing him is....good luck. Becky
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Registered: 06-30-2003
Mon, 05-09-2005 - 11:38am
Thanks Becky!
The night was fun. We were both so tired we hung out and slept. I didn't wear white....I went shopping fo rit but couln't find it since I Was pressed for time so I wore some other outfit. He dug it...lol Tx!
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Registered: 05-10-2005
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 1:37pm
You have great ideas planned. Ya, I wouldn't wear white, I would just wear something sexy, ya know....Um, you might wanna make a poem to him and add some soft music in your room, to make it mroe romantic....these are jsut some ideas, anyway....Good Luck with everything! and Congrat's!