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| Mon, 10-10-2005 - 2:48pm |
Well, I have been dating this guy for about a month and for the first couple of weeks it was great we talked all the time and spent the whole weekends togather but after those couple of weeks it has kinda went down hill as for as our time togather, he still treats me great but we only talk maybe once a week and I only see him like on Fridays. He has had a few things happen in the past couple of weeks and I understand that we can not talk everynight but there are other things like saying he is comming over and not showing up,or that he will call and I don't hear from him. I don't know I think maybe I am worring over nothing but for some reason it bothers me. He always appoligizes and I believe he is sorry. To top all that off he told me something that would scare most people off, he is bipolar and boarder line schizophrenic, he gets depressed easily especially with everything that has been going on and I may not hear from him for days and that is something I understand and can deal with when it comes to his problems, and I understand things alot better now that he told me this and I am glad he told me and it is not going to scare me off - I care about him alot. So I guess what I am asking about is it ok that I am upset when I don't hear from him or is this petty and childish and selfish and I should just get over it.

You need to put a good amount of thought into this relationship. Is this something you can see yourself dealing with. Dealing with psychological disorders is VERY difficult for any couple, muchless people who are still getting to know each other.