Nice guy turned jerk?

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Registered: 03-01-2008
Nice guy turned jerk?
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Tue, 04-27-2010 - 11:43am

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Registered: 11-30-2009
Tue, 04-27-2010 - 12:40pm
It's hard to say, but I'm willing to bet that he's messing with your head. The facebook poking, and textings after 2 months of not seeing you doesn't indicate any seriousness about his intention to have a relationship with you. I'm not into textings and facebook when it comes to relationships. If you're serious someone, you pick up the phone and you call them, but that's just me. I mean only he can tell you why he wants to see you again, but missing you isn't a good enough answer, because who knows, it could be the sex he was missing. Text messages like 'goodnight beautiful' sounds so flaky to me, but that's just the impression I'm getting and I could be wrong. But let's say you give him the benefit of a doubt, you'd still have to be cautious because of the whole FWB that the two of you've had. I think that if you want to see him again and see where things go, keep it strictly emotional and none of the physical intimacy, until he takes you and your relationship seriously. good luck
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Tue, 04-27-2010 - 1:15pm
Agreed.. I mean for all I know I may not hear from him again which will make things a heck of a lot easier. I just wanted to prepare myself mentally incase he came back AGAIN. This would've been far easier if everyone told me he was a jerk by nature haha. Thanks for your input :) helped a lot!
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Registered: 11-30-2009
Tue, 04-27-2010 - 2:47pm
I can see why his good reputation may have
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Registered: 04-10-2010
Tue, 04-27-2010 - 8:36pm

I think you will save yourself lots of grief if you just accept that his answer to having a relationship with you is, unfortunately,

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Tue, 02-19-2013 - 12:15am

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