No kiss on first date, what?!

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Registered: 09-07-2004
No kiss on first date, what?!
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Thu, 03-23-2006 - 7:38pm

Hello-

Last night on my "first date" with "Josh", (the reason why I say "first date" is because we dated in high school a long time ago.) I haven't seen him in awhile, so it counts as a first date. We went out to eat and see a movie. The beginning of the date went really well, but later on those awkward silences started to bug me. I was feeling uncomfortable and so was he I am sure. We ended up holding hands in the movie. Anyways, at the end of the night, he walked me to my front door and gave me a hug and said, "call me if ya wanna hang out", I was like, "no you call me." I'm thinking he may believe I am not that interested in him. Haven't heard from him yet, but I thought it was weird that we never kissed the whole night. It is really bugging me. I am not a prude seeing that we have done almost everything besides sex in the past, but last night was different. At moments I could feel the sexual tension rising, but he never got the courage to make a move. Trust me, I really wanted to go for the kill and just kiss him, but I thought that would make it too easy for him. So now I wanna know how you would feel if this happened to you. IF you were in "Josh's position what would you think? Thank you so much for your suggestions!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 03-24-2006 - 10:39am
I say just chalk it up.. If you see him again ok if not don't worry. Continue to date and I also second Sherry's post above.
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