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| Fri, 11-11-2005 - 4:54pm |
I have been dating this guy for four, almost five months. We see each other about once a week. I work two jobs and he works 50+ hours a week. Well, I had the "talk" with him. He told me that he "didn't know" if he wanted to be serious. I will say I did know that he was dating a girl for a couple of months while we were dating, but it ended about a month ago. Understand because we are/were casual. By him telling me that he "din't know" does that basically mean "NO"? About four days after we had the talk he took me to the movies. I figured if the talk scared him off he would not have called to go out. He was hurt pretty bad a few years ago from an ex girlfriend. Would that be why he "doesn't know"? Should I give him time to think about being serious? When do I bring it up again. The thing with me is that I do not want to wait around forever until he "knows", but I really want to be with him. A person knows what they want!!! Also, if he is not interested why couldn't he tell me. Please Advise.

Tabby,
he isn't interested in being your girlfriend. "I don't know" means "No, but I don't want to tell you that straight up because then you won't be interested in me anymore".
Thanks to Charles for the male perspective. That's what we women need to hear.
Question: IS HE NOT INTERESTED?
Answer: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU (just like the book)
FYI, the first talk was more or less a NO. The movie date was to see if FWB is possible.