Oh! The Attraction

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Registered: 03-03-2006
Oh! The Attraction
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Sun, 03-26-2006 - 5:43am
I have been in a realtionship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, but lately I have been finding myself extremelly attracted to another guy. Not only am I feeling the attraction, I am also beginning to wonder what it would be like to date this other guy. I love my boyfriend and I can't imagine life without him, but I am having the hardest time getting this other guy out of my head. It seems almost impossible. This guy is (for lack of a better term) hot. He has an amazing body and that is something that my guy doesn't have. I have tried to encourage working out together, and doing more physical activity, but he doesn't seem to have any interest. I'm probably soundling like a shallow high school girl, but I take care of myself and I just wish that my boyfried would too.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 03-26-2006 - 7:40am

jenna022783...

At the risk of messing up a perfect 4-year relationship, Pianoguy suspects that you've become a little bored with your present b/f? This is why you've got the hots for somebody new?

But before you decide to dump the current b/f for "Mr. Bodybuilder"...consider the fact that the latter might have a few 'character traits' that might be less agreeable to you than the ones your b/f has?

Why not concentrate on finding a mutually agreeable exercise activity (NOT JUST SEX) that the two of you can do together?

Pianoguy