Ok Girls! Some advice please!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2005
Ok Girls! Some advice please!
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Thu, 08-11-2005 - 2:54am

Ok it's like this! I'm a recently single guy who's about ready to get back in the game. There's this girl I've actually had a crush on for years each time I was single she had a boyfriend or husband (Ok I've know her alot of years) and of course when she was single I had the girlfriend or wife. Timing was never right, and now here I am single again, but she's with someone........ but I've heard through the grapevine its a younger guy and in her words "its just for fun". What the hell do I do here? This wouldn't be just another fling either this girl is a keeper and then some. I think I stood a chance years ago but now I'm not too sure. It's frustrating as hell, if she was in a serious relationship I'd let it go, if she was fully single I would've went after her the first second I saw her.

So any advice here for a love struck gentleman?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2003
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 7:28am
Why don't you ask her out? Maybe she is not exclusive with the guy she is dating now and is willing to date both of you at the same time. Iri
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-1999
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 10:33am
It all depends on whether or not she's still free to date other men on the side. If she is, then you're safe to go for it. If she's not, then the rest of it doesn't matter. If you don't know, then you should casually ask her about it some time and find out.