opinions needed - frigid men.

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Registered: 07-22-2005
opinions needed - frigid men.
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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 11:13am

Boyfriends/husbands who see no value in kissing. I mean I get a peck here and there, but not much more unless we're having sex and times when we have sex are few and far between.

What do you make of this? Intamacy issues?

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 12:39pm
Some people just aren't into kissing. Doesn't mean there is a problem it is the same as someone who is not into kissing in public. It is a personal things he is not into.
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 5:58pm

I'm particularly focussed on your comment that sex is not that frequent.

There are many causes for lost libido - some medical and some emotional. However, being 'frigid' or having 'intimacy issues' are probably not that likely.

In no particular order, here is a list of some things that may effect his libido:

stress
tiredness
health problems
medications
relationship problems
too much masturbation
erectile dysfunction
obesity
a partner who's sexual expectations are way different
the list goes on......

Do any of these sound likely?

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Registered: 10-05-2004
Sat, 05-13-2006 - 6:14pm


Hi,

I had a similar problem with a guy I was dating, unfortunately in my case the guy was a total commitaphobe and a mama's boy. Try to talk to him and let him know how you feel, if he still doesn't show any emotions towards intimacy, dump HIM!!!! you can find someone who treats you better and makes you feel more deserved.

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Registered: 05-14-2006
Sun, 05-14-2006 - 7:02pm
I have the same problem... Nothing I do ever helps. I have tried everything!!