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opinions needed - frigid men.
| Tue, 05-09-2006 - 11:13am |
Boyfriends/husbands who see no value in kissing. I mean I get a peck here and there, but not much more unless we're having sex and times when we have sex are few and far between.
What do you make of this? Intamacy issues?

I'm particularly focussed on your comment that sex is not that frequent.
There are many causes for lost libido - some medical and some emotional. However, being 'frigid' or having 'intimacy issues' are probably not that likely.
In no particular order, here is a list of some things that may effect his libido:
stress
tiredness
health problems
medications
relationship problems
too much masturbation
erectile dysfunction
obesity
a partner who's sexual expectations are way different
the list goes on......
Do any of these sound likely?
Hi,
I had a similar problem with a guy I was dating, unfortunately in my case the guy was a total commitaphobe and a mama's boy. Try to talk to him and let him know how you feel, if he still doesn't show any emotions towards intimacy, dump HIM!!!! you can find someone who treats you better and makes you feel more deserved.