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| Mon, 11-07-2005 - 1:13am |
Hi all,
Thanks for taking times for reading my story. and here is my story:
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I met a girl at the church. I've found that this girl is using me more than value the friendship with me. Until now, i still keep the friendship with her after what she has done to me.
Honestly, I help her a lot and seems she keeps asking more than that. There are lot of things i know she did to hurt me in my back. she is jealous of my life. I found it out but i didn't tell her i know all. In the past, I had one guy i was interested in and we ended up with nothing happen because of the story she made up to me and to him. It took me long time to forget her. Now, i decide to end the friendship with her. She is no good to me but just keep hurting me. I have a guy i am interested in now also. But we are not that closed yet since we don't see each other very often. The problem i have here is I am scared she will say something The which is not true to my friend since they see each other sometimes. Should I write to my friend and tell him not to listen to her? if so, is it wried for him to recieve my letter like that? Everyone now thinks I and my girl friend is a bubby, so they will ask her about me when they see her. what i should do? please advise?
Thanks...

isme666...
You probably know this already, but YOU'RE INVOLVED IN A "NO-WIN SITUATION!"
Reason-being that others (who know both you and the girl who is using you) have already accepted the fact that the 2 of you are a confirmed couple!
If friendship ISN'T comfortable for you....you'll have to tell her! Then let the chips fall. But don't be surprised if the words she utters to certain members of the church congregation aren't very comfortable or HONEST!
You can talk to your friend (about her) in a letter...or up-close in a conversation...but there are NO GUARANTEES he'll accept your version of the 'breakup' as opposed to hers?
Pianoguy