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|Wed, 10-21-2009 - 11:49pm|
My ex-boyfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me in august. After a month of no contact, he texted me and said he thought he made a huge mistake..and was thinking about getting back together with me...at first i was overjoyed...but the issue there was that we both go to different schools (We were in a long distance relationship for over a year out of the two). Well I caved in and said ya i wanted to get back together with him...and we continued to talk for about a month or so. He said he wanted to come down and visit..and I said ok...but he didn't know for sure because of class conflicts and his work schedule.. two days before he was supposed to come..he got offered another job as a genereal manager for a basketball team..he said he wasn't sure if he was going to take it..and he still didn't know if he was going to come down. two days passed and I didn;t hear from him at all. The day he was supposed to drive down..i got a random text...I replied asking if he was coming down or not. He said: "I took the job..so no I'm not coming..sorry."
I got really upset...i felt like i was being strung along...so after a lot of thinking..i sent him a message telling him that we needed to stop talking if this wasn't going to go anywhere..and that as much as i loved him..it was way too hard..I told him that he had my number and if he wanted to get back together...he could contact me..and if i was still interested than we could talk.
Well 3 weeks passed (with no contact)