Possible New Relationship

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Registered: 03-02-2008
Possible New Relationship
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Mon, 07-27-2009 - 9:27am

I will try to keep this as brief as possible. In looking to practice spanish, I messaged people online and met E. We corresponded almost daily for many months before speaking on the phone, and eventually meeting in person. (He lives about 3 1/2- 4 hours from me). The first time we spent the weekend together, he took buses and trains to come see me and had to leave at the crack of dawn. We hit it off and when he left that weekend, he texted me 5 minutes later saying he missed me already and wanted to stay with me.


Throughout the week, I got many texts and calls saying he missed me and wanted me to come see him. He took off work Friday and I took off Sunday so we could spend the weekend together. His 4 year old child was going to be with him for the weekend too but he said he wanted me to meet him. I drove to see him and when I got there, his "apartment" was basically just a room. He had no kitchen or bathroom or anything- they were shared with other family members and people who rented other rooms. He said "Not what you expected huh?" but I didnt let him feel bad because my apartment is tiny too. We spent

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Registered: 01-18-2006
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 9:54am
Doesn't sound like he was in to you. Yeah it's confusing and all, but why would you wanna settle for someone like that? He smokes weed and has a child, and although that might not bother you...in the long run it will. I would consider this just a quick fling and move on.