Recurring dreams

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Registered: 04-19-2011
Recurring dreams
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Tue, 04-19-2011 - 3:01am
I met this really nice guy at work about 9 yrs ago. At the time I was married. He would call me in his office so we could talk. Our conversations would be very pleasant and lighthearted. He would hold all his calls whenever I was in his office and give me his undivided attention. For some unknown reason I felt very drawn to him. We both left the company to persue other opportunities.

I bumped into him in the mall about 2 yrs ago and he seemed very happy to see me. He gave me a huge hug and gave me and looked me up and down slowly. He then picked up my left hand and looked at my ring finger. I felt butterflies in my stomach. (i was still married when he last saw me) I am no longer married. Since last year I keep having recurring dreams about him(not every night) and usually when I am not thinking about him. I wonder why this keeps happening? Are my dreams telling me something?

I bumped into him 2 yrs ago and he
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Registered: 05-18-2009
Tue, 04-19-2011 - 9:48am

I remember a very similar post from months ago. I guess nothing has changed for you?

The content of this dream doesn't mean anything except that you have not found your interaction with this guy to be completely resolved. I'm not sure why you're looking to dreams for answers when you could pick up the phone, give him a call, catch up, casually mention that you're not married anymore, and suggest meeting up for lunch or coffee.

Nothing is ever going to happen if you aren't willing to try.

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Registered: 04-09-2008
Tue, 04-19-2011 - 11:17am

Do you have any way to contact him? I mean besides the dreams ;)

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Tue, 04-19-2011 - 11:35am

Maybe you could look for him on Facebook?

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Registered: 10-29-2006
Wed, 04-20-2011 - 9:23am

Was he married or involved in a relationship the last time you saw him?

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Registered: 04-19-2011
Wed, 04-20-2011 - 11:45pm

The last time I saw him he was single. I'm praying he is still single. The thing that impressed me about him is that he is a truly nice guy. I hope our paths will cross again one day.

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Registered: 04-19-2011
Wed, 04-20-2011 - 11:46pm

I tried facebook. I can't find him.

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Registered: 08-27-2005
Thu, 05-19-2011 - 12:41am

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