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relationship doom???
| Sun, 05-15-2005 - 4:14pm |
Just wondering?
SO ( Signficant other) and I will have been together 3 months on the 19th of this month.....things are/were great but SO is 21,I am 30 ( I nomarally date younger and have great relationships)and well things seem odd at times...For two weeks now SO says they had had a bad feeling about something bad going to happen yet last night SO seemed really odd.says bad feeling if why yet up til now So has actted fine......So's family adores me which makes it even more tough.Lately I have been wondering if SO was the one for me,but thinking no.we seem to have very little to talk about.SO has ADD and blames everything on that,SO is always apologizing....I don't want anyone else but wonder???if I should even be in this relationhsip.....So has always been secretive about finaces and I feel SO does anything for me and doesn't let me know it is a finacial strain for them.We have had issues with SO's ex trying to come between us.So is trying to move her and says there are pressures from jobs(old and new one both) yet never really talks about it.Most importantly I am bored cause the conversation is almost non-existant,I feel we have nothing in common.I feel maybe this is not a bad thing??IN three months people get attached yet it is not for life?Can't it just not be the one???anyone any advice is great thanks,Jo
SO ( Signficant other) and I will have been together 3 months on the 19th of this month.....things are/were great but SO is 21,I am 30 ( I nomarally date younger and have great relationships)and well things seem odd at times...For two weeks now SO says they had had a bad feeling about something bad going to happen yet last night SO seemed really odd.says bad feeling if why yet up til now So has actted fine......So's family adores me which makes it even more tough.Lately I have been wondering if SO was the one for me,but thinking no.we seem to have very little to talk about.SO has ADD and blames everything on that,SO is always apologizing....I don't want anyone else but wonder???if I should even be in this relationhsip.....So has always been secretive about finaces and I feel SO does anything for me and doesn't let me know it is a finacial strain for them.We have had issues with SO's ex trying to come between us.So is trying to move her and says there are pressures from jobs(old and new one both) yet never really talks about it.Most importantly I am bored cause the conversation is almost non-existant,I feel we have nothing in common.I feel maybe this is not a bad thing??IN three months people get attached yet it is not for life?Can't it just not be the one???anyone any advice is great thanks,Jo

Besides, if the "ex" is causing so much trouble, and he's still involved with her enough to be moving her, there's more there than meets the eye. Let her deal with him.
Good luck. I wish you much happiness. Becky