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| Mon, 01-23-2006 - 8:28pm |
i posted this up in another board and i thought i'd be able to get more opinions on here!
I'm 21 years old and I've never been more confused about my love life than ever before! Recently my ex boyfriend and I have been hanging out more...we were together for 2 yrs and he was my first everything, so he's pretty important to me. Things have been happening lately and I have no idea on how to deal with it or what to even think of it! We're both really close to eachother and we stayed friends after our huge breakup...we broke up before because things were just too complicated for us to be with eachother...it hurt like a bitch but we both sorta got over it...he's one of the only people who knows me the best!
Anyway, so here's what's been happening that are making me think...on my birthday, when he saw me, he gave me a huge hug...regardless of what day it was, birthday or not, he would not have done that. He slapped my ass which was normal, but he bought me a rose, gave me a kiss on the cheek goodbye and held my hand. All of this seems a bit normal to me and i may be blowing this out of proportion but I really don't know...
Boxing day, we hung out. We watched a movie and he started to play fight with me, which again i find normal, but he kissed me...and we made out...but i stopped because it felt weird.
He picked me up from school and he body checked me into the wall then slapped my ass...
Last friday, he came to visit me at work, claiming he was in the area...which he was but my work was kind of out of his way to see me. this i find weird because he hasn't visited me at work since last year...the same night i went to the bar with a bunch of my friends, got really drunk and he offered to come and pick me up. i've called him while i was drunk before but he never offered to come and get me ever...i held his hand during the drive and he didn't bother to pull away.
This week we went grocery shopping and went back to his house to watch a movie, nothing at all happened except for the constant getting in my face by him, play fighting and all that jazz..
am i blowing this out of proportion? or is there something brewing and im not seeing it?
someone, anyone, help!
| Tue, 01-24-2006 - 1:04am |
