Sex before committment
Find a Conversation
| Fri, 08-05-2005 - 10:52am |
ok, i am wondering if someone can help me out on this... yesterday night i was on the phone talking to this guy that i've been seeing for about 5 mths and the subject of sex came up. granted we've already done the deed but he wanted to know when are we going to do it again. i told him that he doesn't do enough (i.e. phone calls, dates, qt time etc). he repsonded by saying "well what do you want me to do, i'm a bz man." also, he also stated that how do you go from talking about sex one minute and talking about us hanging out the next. ques- did i do something wrong here? we've never had the "talk" before we had sex, so is it too late to expect committment now? how do i find out if he's looking for a relationship or just casually hooking up?
thanks for the help.
E.

<>
Why would you want a commitment from this guy? Looking at this from a different perspective, it seems you've allowed him to get some without having to do very much to get it. Also, he's told you he's a bz man, so based upon that statement and the amount of attention he's giving you now (or the lack thereof), it doesn't sound like you can really expect him to do or give you much more.
My best guess is that he will get what he can from you until he either finds someone else or you refuse to put out anymore.
Good luck,
Heymum
Ouch!
Yep, he's only after a booty call. If he wanted a relationship, he'd be doing all the stuff that you want.