Shes got me confused
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|Fri, 01-22-2010 - 4:09pm|
Alright Ill try and make this as short as possible
Ok so my best female friend who lives 8 hours away and I went last weekend. Weve expressed we have feelings for each other while i was over there and we were both intoxicated. When i get back i tell her through text and phone that i meant it. I did drop a bomb letting her know all these feelings out of no where. But she says she HAS feelings to but is confused (says it was to much to take in at once). She says she feels comfortable and safe like nothing can happen when shes with me not sure if she doesnt think my feelings are real since we did all this over the phone, (which we agreed we had to do in person to get the full effect of the words we told each other.
Ok so she says shes confused, i would take this as a way of letting me down gently and beating around the bush. But why would she add that she has feelings for me and that the weekend was the best one shes ever had and doesnt regret it (ended up doing things that just friends dont do). And i asked if she was talkin to anyone and she said she wasnt (i would of guessed shed say yes just to give me a hint shes not interested like that)
I do believe she is confused, she is emotionally drained (could hear it in her voice when we talk) just about everything shes homesick, school, lonely, etc. Ive had feelings for her which I would brush off as I didnt know what they meant (which she says shes done the same) but i think i can no longer fight them which is why I think I should give her time. And I think she must of got the idea (which is my fault for not expressing that) that I want to make her my girlfriend right now right now, which is not so I would want to wait for her to finish school (which is a couple months) just so we can start with a foundation for that kind of relationship. And she had told me this is definitely not a no but I just need time which i understand.
What do you guys think