Should I Hold On?
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Should I Hold On?
| Tue, 01-10-2006 - 6:09pm |
I really like this guy and he really likes me. The problem is people interupted with the phase where you find out if you really want the person or not and now he thinks something of me that is totally not me. It seems like his mind is made up but he always I mean ALWAYS changes his mind. This time, however, the question is when? When will he finally relize what a great person I am and how much I care for him? His friends say hold on because that's just how he is and he'll come around. My bestfriend says I should hold on also, but my other girlfriends say I should move on. I'm just really confused right now and heartbroken and frustrated. Please help me someone!

I think people haven't responded because your query is vague. What is it that he heard about you? How well do you know each other? Are the two of you involved or is this more on the level of a crush?
Sometimes when people are still in the process of getting to know one another, they rely on third party information, so as to not get too invested in someone they hardly know. If it's that important to you, then why don't you go to him and correct whatever misinformation he has? And if he always changes his mind, why do you want to be with someone so wishy washy?
If you could say a little more about your situation, you might get more advice.