SHOULD I JUST LET IT BE?
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SHOULD I JUST LET IT BE?
| Tue, 11-15-2005 - 2:00am |
I've met this guy a year ago. We would occasionally bump into each other once in a while. Well after a year, we finally talked...but the problem is i have a b/f. Well...we were friends..and then one day i asked if he had feelings for me. His response was to lets pretend we never met, just let it be. Confused.....he still never did reply my answer. I just don't undertand why he would suddenly just not want to talk to me anymore.

Forgive me if this sounds harsh, but why would you consider your current BF as "a problem"? Let's look at this in reverse. How would you feel if your BF had a similar discussion with another female in which he described YOU as "a problem"? At the very least, I imagine you'd find it very hurtful and grounds for breaking up.
Nevertheless, maybe the very reason why your friend stopped speaking to you is because you referred to your BF as "a problem". It may have been a major turn-off to him and caused him to think that if you'd speak that way of your BF, it may only be a matter of time before you'd refer to him too in the very same manner.
That's my two pesos....
Heymum