Should I let go?

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Registered: 01-02-2000
Should I let go?
Fri, 06-19-2009 - 1:49am

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Registered: 03-19-2006
Fri, 06-19-2009 - 2:51pm


Welcome to the board! I'm so sorry that now after all that time spent waiting to start a relationship with this person now is when he finds out he is leaving. I can't even begin to understand how you may feel?

Are you and him not interested in doing a temporary Long Distance relationship?

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Registered: 05-21-2009
Sat, 06-20-2009 - 11:45am
I think you should take it a day at a time. Old and worn saying but you never know how things between the two of you will evolve by then.
Im sure him leaving is all you think about, but don't cloud your remaining time together with sad thoughts.Consider while you are still together physically that every day is a gift. What you feel about LDR's now may change and you decide you do have the strength to continue the relationship with him far away.
Good luck to you whichever way you choose.