okay so I really need some honest, real advice on
>>But even though I don't want anything really serious I would like for me and him to be exclusive because I do care for him. I just don't know if I should say anything or not. I just don't want to continue seeing him if its going no where or if he's still seeing other people because I'm not at this point.<<
It sounds like you dont know what you want either so how can you interpret his actions when you arent sure if you want things to get serious yourself? If you are happy to be friends and you enjoy being with him, keep things as they are until you DO want to get serious. When or if that time comes, talk to him about how you feel and where youre going with the relationship and let him know. Right now you have no idea and confusing him may ruin what you already have.Good luck.