should i stay or should i go?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2006
should i stay or should i go?
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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 1:50am

been with a guy for 9 plus years. found out 2 years ago that he cheated for 3 years. he led a double life and did a very good job at it until it came to a head and he had a mini breakdown. he said he never stopped loving me (?) and cant really explain why he did it other than he was attracted to her and did it.

do you ever trust again? always have in my mind when I thought it was the truth and it was a lie.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-13-2004
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 6:00am

Hi Liz

I think we need much more information before we can advise you. For example, what kind of changes in his life has he made since then? Is he sorry? Does he lead a transparent life? And importantly, why are you still with him if you don't trust him?

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