Should I wait or give up???
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Should I wait or give up???
| Mon, 09-12-2005 - 4:08pm |
I have been talking to this guy for a month and a half now. We started out talking on the phone and I visited him once. Then we started emailing. I am going through a divorce and it will be final Sept. 15th. He responded to a few of my emails, and we both agreed it would be better to wait until the divorce was final to get "involved". I know he has checked his email a few times this week and I haven't heard a word from him. That is the problem. He was the one that wanted to just email until everything was final and now he reads them but doesn't respond? I have asked him after this week if and when was I going to get to talk or see him. I haven't heard anything back yet on that eamil. I don't know what to do. Should I wait and give him sometime or just tell him that he has to want this more for it to work out??

Give up.
I don't know how long you've been married, but I think you would be wise to give yourself time to think about the demise of your marriage and whatever lessons you're to learn from THAT before you jump head first into another relationship with him or anyone else.
I've heard it said that for every three years of marriage, one needs one full year to recover emotionally and be ready for the rigors of a new relationship.
Good luck,
Heymum
Give up. His silence speaks for itself.
Sheri