Sick and Tired of Just being Sick and Tired! :(

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Registered: 02-13-2006
Sick and Tired of Just being Sick and Tired! :(
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Mon, 07-09-2012 - 7:29am

Hello. So I was on here awhile back about having feelings still for my now ex-fwb(we're still only friends).I've been going out 4 times a night just dancing my ass off trying to get these feelings out of my system.I'm having a really hard time because he stated that he's seeing someone and my mind is still screaming 'why not me' BUT I know that will pass.

I just REALLY and sick and tired of being single!!! I'm tired of hearing some people who broke up and then less then 3 months later is seeing someone new.I want to be that person.I guess I've just been hiding behind online dating eventhough I rarely ever had a date.The furtheest I tend to get is e-mail and then talking on the phone.Well I have decided that I will finally meet a friend of mine whom I had originally had planned to meet a long time ago but had chickened out but we still talk.He really wants to meet me so I thought...you know what?! I'll just get this over with. I realize that I would be a great gf to someone BUT that person NEEDS to respect me and play NO Games!!! and it seems like that's all there is out there...for the most part...guys playing games. It's weird but I have been accused of 'having game' and being 'a player'..yeah ME who is having such a hard time trying to find someone suitable for me.I just want some ideas on what I should do to try to meet decent guys WITHOUT having to do the internet thing because I think it is less nerve racking if you communicate face-to-face without any judgement.Need advice.

 

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Registered: 02-13-2006
Mon, 07-30-2012 - 12:31am

Good for you!!! :smileyhappy: