So confused

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Registered: 01-15-2010
So confused
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Fri, 01-15-2010 - 1:33pm

So I don't usually find myself writing on message forums and things, but I am in some severe need for real advice and what to do.

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Registered: 12-18-2009
In reply to: lcr83
Sat, 01-16-2010 - 9:26am

"He knows I love him because I have told him since and I am sure mutual friends are expressing this to him" what was his reaction or what did he say,if anything?

"I want to tell him everything. How much I really fell in love with him and that Christmas was the world to me (and all the in betweens) and that I regret even thinking of going back to sleep with our friend knowing how much I fell for him.." Tell him slowly but surely.Dont blab out everything in one breath,lol. Keep your eyes and ears open when you do tell him.If he goes with the flow then you can open up more.I would suggest to not sleep with him again till you have dated for a while as he might very well have just enjoyed sex with you.
Dont have casual sex with the other guy anymore,IMHO.