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So confused!
| Tue, 11-15-2005 - 4:33pm |
Here is my story, I will make is short and sweet as not to bore anyone. My now boyfriend and I went to high school together and in school we hung out as friends and had a great time. Now he is 27, I am 29. I had not seen him until approx. the end of Sept. 05. We just met w/ a group of friend, but ended up hanging out w/ just one another and basically forgetting everyone was there. And we have basically been together since. His story - he is 27, been married 2 times, has 3 kids by 3 diff. girls, has had a vasectomy, and is madly in love w/ me. I tried to tell him one night, that we could never be b/c I want kids one day and it's not fair for me to be w/ someone that can't give me that. And I don't want to deal w/ the baby mama drama! He said "I understand, but I am not going to quit trying". And he hasn't, I care for this guy so much, but why go on if it can never be. I mean, I guess it could, but there would be very hard stipulations that he would get a reversal and/or we'd get artificial insemination from someone that looks like him. (i know I sound like a bi***) Okay, this guy treats me sooo great. I have always said that I would not be w/ anyone unless they treat me as I deserve to be treated. I am a princess to him and he shows that to me! I love his family, I truly feel like I belong there, I make myself at home and nothing is ever thought of about it. I just don't know what to do, I so want to stay and be w/ him b/c I am really falling in love, but I don't want to stay b/c I am afraid he will never be able to give me what I want. I do not want to hurt him (or his family). Any advice? Thanks

Marie