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stubborn?
| Tue, 10-11-2005 - 11:16am |
Hi everyone i need some opinions if possible. Ive been seeing his guy for about a month, a mutual friend introduced us. we hit off off right away and things moved pretty fast. Which actually I fine with because I like him alot and it felt right. So last weekend we got into a little argument which I started and now I see I was wrong. I figured we would be doing something becaus esince we met every weekend we hung out and here he said he already had plans. So I got mad ad went home but I did the whole " no Im not mad thing" so I ended up running into him out and he came up to me and I pretty much blew him off. so he walked away. At the end of the night I checked my phone and here he called. so I called back no answer so I kept calling and he wouldnt answer all night. we didnt talk all day sunday. then monday I text him saying i was sorry. He wrote back and said he wsant mad anymore and hed call later. But he never did till tues. so we talked a little. then we hung out wends. and things were ok. thursday we barely talked. the whole week was just weid cuz usually we talk 5 times a day. then friday he never called. so I saw him out and we talked/argued. i went back to his house and noticed my stuff was gone and he says that his cleaning lady put it in the drawer. but my suspious mind says he hid it because of another girl, I dont know. what do you think? so we talked and he applogized and said he is just stubborn and thats why he wouldnt talk to me and he dosent deal with that stuff good. so since then things have been back to normal. but it just makes me wonder about some stuffmaybe he really doesnt like me that much if he wont talk to me for 3 days adn then not even call me on friday and then to move my stuff thats just saying he wanted it to be over. Our friend said thats just how he is stubborn and he was just playing games. What does everyone else think????????

My two cents...
I think you both were stubborn, immature, and both of you took a simple arguement, and made it last, what was it, a week or so. All because of your pride. I think he does like you, and putting your stuff away, could be a million reasons. Maybe he was angry and didn't want to see your stuff. Maybe he realized he was being stubborn and it was a reminder that he should talk to you.
I'm curious. Why did you blow him off? Get angry that he had plans? Why blow up over these little things? It seems you both assumed a lot, and instead of being open and talking, you both became very spiteful and held a grudge.
He probably does like you, however, if you two can't learn to talk (w/o your pride and ego getting in the way), realize that whenever you do get into an argument, this is exactly how it will be.....more anger, ignoring each other, power plays, etc.
First let me say I don't disagree with the other posters BUT...
In my personal experience if you've been seeing a guy a month and up until that point you've been talking regularly and going out every weekend it's a little odd that he'd have plans for the whole weekend and not have at least invited you along one night or made an afternoon date.
IMHO, this is not a guy who is as into you as your are in to him.
I could be wrong, but if it were me I'd proceed with caution.